Lainie- boudoir BABE extraordinaire.

This here is Lainie, a boudoir client who takes boudoir-ing to the next level. She’s gorgeous and strong (emotionally and she’s also BUFF!). I’ve taken her boudoir photos 3 times, and each time she has amazed me with her generous spirit, willingness to try new things, and general comfort in her body. I just like her as a human, and I think you would too.

This is the first time I’ve asked a boudoir babe to answer questions for a blog post (!!!). Lainie has some real insight and wisdom. In the last question, she answers what she loves about womanhood and her answer truly floored me.

I’m so happy that people like Lainie let me take sexy and empowering photos of them!! I hope you enjoy the pics and Lainie’s answers!

What motivated you to sign-up for a boudoir shoot? 

I was strongly motivated by my age and the desire to capture a moment in time. At first, I just wanted to do the photos before I turned 50. Once I turned 50 I wanted that documented too!

How do your favorite photos from your sessions make you feel?

I feel like it's my little secret I keep in my drawer. I love being able to bring them out when the time is right.

What would you say to a woman who doesn't think she is beautiful enough to be photographed?

I have felt that way countless times in my life but fear is a motivator. I would say find a kick-ass makeup artist, get your hair done and drink a couple of shots of whiskey. The photographs may be as close as you ever get to magic.

What are your reflections on “beauty” in our culture?

I grew up in Los Angeles and have struggled with the rigid, uniform idea of beauty and trying to conform to it my whole life. My mother told me many times that nobody sees our flaws or the nuances of our beauty like we do, they just see the big picture. This is a hard concept for me to grasp, but as I get older I'm embracing it more. I’m constantly learning.

What are your hopes for the next generation of women? What advice would you give to them?

I have a 12-year-old daughter and I actually learn more from her than she does from me. She takes on life in a way I only wish I had the strength to do when I was her age. I was painfully shy growing up, had very few friends and no confidence. I would tell the next generation to try new things, be ok with failing or looking dumb, and just put yourself out there.

What would you tell your 16-year-old self if you could meet her now?

I would say stop giving a shit about what people think and just find something that brings you joy!

What do you love most about being a woman?

Women can constantly reinvent themselves, keep people guessing about what's next. We are versatile and can be so many things to so many people. We have the freedom to be both emotional and smart, pretty and strong. Being a woman means the possibilities are endless.